Live your energy

Monique Hoekstra helpes you to get back to your true energy.

„My journey with Human Design began when I had completely lost myself — overwhelmed, burned out, and unsure which direction to take. During a retreat, I encountered Human Design for the first time and realized how unique and individual we all are — and how much potential unfolds when we truly understand ourselves.“

Hey, I’m Monique

and with Pure Soul I guide people as a Human Design mentor to recognize their own authenticity and create a life that truly fits who they are.


My journey with Human Design began when I had completely lost myself — overwhelmed, burned out, and unsure which direction to take. During a retreat, I encountered Human Design for the first time and realized how unique and individual we all are — and how much potential unfolds when we truly understand ourselves.

I know firsthand how hard it can be to stay consistent with routines. My Heart Center is undefined, which means I don’t have constant willpower or discipline.

That’s exactly why an app like Tracktastic is so helpful for me — it supports me in integrating small rituals into my everyday life and staying on track, even when it gets tough.

I usually meditate in the morning right after waking up, or in the evening before bed. I like to light a candle and play soft music — sometimes nature sounds, sometimes calm piano melodies.
I close my eyes, place one hand on my heart, and simply feel my breath.
Meditation helps me come back to myself, start or end my day consciously, and calm my mind. Especially as a Generator, it’s what brings me back into alignment.

For me, MeTime means giving myself loving space — without obligations, without expectations.
I regularly take little moments during the day to simply do what nourishes me: drink a cup of tea, take a bath, read a good book, or just lie on the couch and listen to music.
These moments remind me that self-care isn’t a luxury — it’s the foundation of my energy. And since I sometimes struggle to keep up routines (thanks to my undefined Heart Center), it’s even more important that I consciously make time for these pauses and enjoy them.

Breathwork is a deep ritual of connection for me — with my body, my energy, and life itself.
I often practice it in the morning to feel awake and clear, or whenever I notice stress creeping in.
I close my eyes, inhale deeply through my nose, hold for a moment, and then slowly release.
Sometimes I use soft music; other times, I breathe in silence.
With every breath, I let go of what feels heavy and invite in lightness.
Breathwork helps me return to my flow — my natural rhythm as a Generator.

Smudging is a beautiful ritual for me to clear energy and realign myself.
I love the scent of white sage or Palo Santo — but sometimes I use local herbs like rosemary or lavender.
I walk mindfully through my space, letting the smoke fill every corner, imagining how old, stagnant energy leaves and fresh, clear energy flows in.
Often I speak a small intention, like: “I release what no longer serves me.”
Afterward, everything feels lighter, clearer, and more peaceful.

Grounding, for me, means coming back into my body and reconnecting with nature.
I love walking barefoot on grass or soil, closing my eyes, and feeling the energy of the earth flow into me.
When that’s not possible, I sit quietly, breathe into my feet, and imagine roots growing from them deep into the earth.
Sometimes I hold a stone or place a hand on my belly.
This ritual helps me stabilize myself — especially on days when I feel lost or unsettled.

Reflection is my evening ritual. I take a few minutes to write in my journal and ask myself:
What fulfilled me today? What gave me energy — and what drained it?
Sometimes I write freely from my heart, sometimes just a few sentences.
Through writing, I see patterns, discover connections, and notice where I was in alignment with myself.
These moments feel like a gentle check-in — honest, soft, and deeply healing.

With Pure Soul, I offer 1:1 readings where we dive deep into your chart and explore your original energy. I also host retreats that help people reconnect with their pure essence and remember who they are — especially when they’ve been feeling lost or stuck in “doing” mode for too long.

I’m a Generator with sacral authority and a 4/6 profile. That means I’m designed to respond to what life brings rather than force things to happen — and that I inspire others through my personal experiences.

If you are curious about getting to know more about Human Design feel free to reach out for me on Instagram: moniquehkstr.